Dear Friends
10 New Year's Resolutions
for Family Caregivers
Week of January 16, 2017
Prayer Requests
Dear Friends,
Our work over the past 11 years with the Friends of St. John the
Caregiver has shown us, time and time again, that family caregivers
are constantly making sacrifices because to caregive is to love ...
and to love is to make sacrifices for one's loved one.
That's why we're suggesting 10 New Year's resolutions that will
help you be a better caregiver without making your life harder.
1. Don't beat yourself up because you aren't "perfect" at
caregiving. (None of us is perfect at anything!)
2. Remember that, even if you can't take a big break, little
breaks help, too. Even five or 10 minutes in the middle of a long
day or seemingly endless night.
3. Tell your spouse and children you're not mad at them. It's just that "I’ve used up all my 'nice.'" Tell them what you want: alone time, a hug, chocolate...
4. Don't hesitate to ask for — or even demand — help.
5. Forgive yourself for the times you've lost your temper. (That
can be harder than asking another for forgiveness! It's good to do
that, too.)
6. Enjoy, relish!, the joyful moments with your care-receiver.
7. Admit that what you're doing is hard. It is.
8. Remember that your loved one's condition may become worse,
that he or she may die, but it's not your fault.
9. Pray. (Yelling at... Speaking loudly to God can be a prayer
that comes straight from the heart.)
10. Know that you're not alone, even though at times you feel
lonely. God has asked you to do this and you've accepted his
invitation. He's with you always. Right here. Right now.
You and your loved ones remain in my prayers.
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This week we're so pleased to welcome Mary L. of California, Amy B. of Illinois, and Monica Z. of Indiana as the newest members of the Friends of St. John the Caregiver. Please keep them and their intentions in your prayers. They have promised to pray for you and yours.
And again this week we cordially invite you to join the Friends of St. John the Caregiver! (FSJC's programs include YourAgingParent.com and CatholicCaregivers.com.) You can find out more about becoming a member here.
No meetings, no dues. All we ask is that you pray for caregivers and those receiving care. Our members include caregivers, care-receivers, and those who support both (including quite a few former caregivers).
You can:
sign up on-line here
or call us toll-free at 1-800-392-JOHN (5646)
or
print and mail an application form.
God bless you!
Bill