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Dear Friends

Monica, Margaret 

What Anointing of the Sick Is . . .
and Isn't

Week of August 3, 2015
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Dear Friends,

When I think back a few years when both my wife, Monica, and my mom, Margaret, were nearing death, among the truly bright spots of that time were their receiving the anointing of the sick.

It's a wonderful sacrament!

And, often it seems, a misunderstood and underused one, too.

Here's how one of our fliers/topics talks about the anointing of the sick:

In years gone by, one of the final things a family would do for a dying loved one was notify the local priest. He would hurry to the house or hospital and administer the "last rites."

In general, the sacrament, then known as extreme unction (final anointing), was reserved for someone on his or her death bed. Since the Second Vatican Council (1962-1965), that’s no longer the case.

Now known as the Anointing of the Sick or Sacrament of the Sick, it’s commonly administered to anyone who has reached "the age of reason" (around seven years old) who's seriously ill. And it's also available for anyone who's elderly. In either case, the recipient does not have to be near death.

It's important to explain this to your care-receiver. "Calling the priest" does not mean he or she is dying. It does not mean your dad is in worse shape than he realizes or that you're keeping some information about your mom’s medical condition from her.

It's also important to know the Anointing of the Sick isn't a "magical" sacrament designed to cure illness. Yes, sometimes a person does get well. But the purpose of the sacrament is to give the person grace and to forgive his or her sins.

In administering the sacrament, the priest will anoint your loved one’s forehead and hands with blessed oil and say some prayers. You, and others, are welcome to be present.

It could be that sometime during the year your care-receiver’s parish has a communal celebration at the church, perhaps at a Sunday Mass.

A person can receive this sacrament more than once. If you aren’t sure if it would be appropriate for your loved one to be anointed, ask your local priest.

For more information see the Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1499-1532.

You can find the topic here and the printable flier here.

And in the photo are (clockwise from upper left): Monica, (our daughter) Carrie, (my mom) Margaret, and me. God has been, and continues to be, so very good to me!

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This week we're so pleased to welcome Art F. of Michigan as the newest member of the Friends of St. John the Caregiver. Please keep him and his intentions in your prayers. He has promised to pray for you and yours.

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God bless you!

Bill

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